Tuesday, July 3, 2018

Predictability of Life!!!!

Hey Guys!!!!

Sorry, I was not able to write yesterday because my uncle passed away. Though I am writing about the people who really had a profound impact upon my life, I will have to deviate here for my uncle.

It was a sad moment yesterday, because this uncle, Mr. Joseph changed my destiny. Can you believe it?? Which I could have done without. But it happened and here I am attending the funeral of him. We all know that there are lots of milestones and cornerstones on a road, we take it for granted when we are sure of the way, but when we ae new to the place we really look forward to have it. So when each new milestone is in front of us, we feel happy because we have reached it. But we don't give a thought when its passed. Only when I was sitting in the church, I was thinking of uncle and I realised, he really was a destiny changer for many people. And they all blame him for intruding in their lives. I know my uncle personally, he always think what is good for others and he acts upon it. In the end, it backfires on him. Isn't it tragic???

The role my uncle played was, he brought me and my family back to Kerala when my dad passed away. He was a success one time but he became a failure through and through. You know, usually people think money is synonym to success. But I would say happiness and love is synonym to success and he didn't have both in both materialistically as well as spiritually by the time he turned 50.

But the worst part was, he was in feud with one of  his younger sibling Mathew. They both didn't attend the same functions together. If one is there the other wouldn't be, just like a 3D card. And all the family members tried to get them to reconcile the difference, but unfortunately, it never happened until last, when Mathew went to meet the older one. They spent together one whole day.

After two days Joseph had a stroke and passed away after three days that is day before yesterday. Isn't both my uncles lucky??

We cannot predict life, but we can live life. Don't hurt anyone and hate anyone. They are part of you. That is what matters the most and the worst part, I met all or almost all my family members whom I haven't seen since school, that will be above 20 years.... What an irony!!!!

See you.

Meena




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