Thursday, April 12, 2018

The LoC of Friendship

Hey Guys!!!

Friends are the best, when they are there to support us, guide us and lend an ear to hear us. But when they try to take the place of someone, then that is where they cross the Line of Control (LoC).

We all have a place in life, no matter what, be there and don't overstep it.

Last day, my friend, a married lady who has a good-for-nothing husband and smart two daughters. So it was natural, she needed someone to hear her problems and that was with her colleague, who was a man. Their friendship grew, they helped each other out, now the man wants to have a say in each and every aspect of her life - to whom to talk with, to whom to be with, etc...etc..... that was the death knell of that beautiful relationship. 

Whose mistake is it?

It is nobody's mistake, we cannot control our heart and the effects the other people have  on us. It can escalate for sure.
Then there are the famous "circumstances", like my friend, she has to take care of her two daughters, she cannot ruin their reputation no matter her husband is a bastard of a man and she would never take liberties with her person with another man, whether he is her best friend, until she is free.

That is where as a friend, we should know, till where is the LoC. Believe it, if you wish to take to the next level, just let it go and be away from the person, you want to be with and there lies the truth, if your partner is attached to you, then for sure he/she will feel and then they will start thinking and that is when the question arise, Why are you avoiding me? And you can say frankly what you feel. If its meant for you, it will happen for you or else, just give the freedom the other person needs and the friendship too.

Never force or dump yourself onto your friends for the sole reason that you are his/her friend.

See you Guys!!!!

Meena

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