Saturday, September 19, 2015

Not Faithful? Be Faithful

You know, 90% cases, reported  for marriage break ups is Faithlessness. Like cheating on your spouse, having an affair with another person, etc....etc....

Why does it happen? Well, to know that we will have to check on the basic fact about oneself. It is all connected with the person Me (in your case, its You)

What is faith?

Its the belief of what one have of oneself, of God or of others. It is usually a positive belief, only good things. And it usually filled within the heart & mind so tightly that there would not be an iota of doubt.

Now, when we have a small speck of doubt in our belief, it becomes the truth and we find ourselves facing this doubt, just like looking in a mirror. I will give an example, you have been invited for a big party and you want to look the very best, but, as the days get closer, you get to get tensed, thinking of all the possible mishaps like a small pimple on the face or a car break down or whatever usual fears and lo behold!!! exactly that happens. So whom should we blame, the soap or the cream which you regularly use or the driver who drove you to the party?

There is no one to blame, except you. Its you who creates all this and that is what happens. If you feel, that being with another man or woman, your husband or wife has a good chance of going astray, it happens as such. So, who is the culprit? You.

Yes, there are times, when there are genuine mental sickness, but that case is rare, which can be treated. 

But, most of the time, in life don't bring a single doubt in your heart with respect to anybody. Even the taxi man or the green grocer or children or whoever you are dealing with. They might say untruth, but believe that they would never say lies and that is what happens, it will become the truth.

We cannot change a person, by our words or actions, but we can make it happen by our faith. So next time, think your spouse can never be faithless to you, unless, you are.

Let me conclude, "Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there,' and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you." Mathew 17:20

Take Care.

Meena



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