Thursday, August 28, 2014

Resignation Letter

Hey Guys!!!!

We all at one time or other need to move out from a rut. But this rut was once a saving grace for us. So we should be grateful for it. But to part ways in a friendly manner is not very easy. So I have put up a very friendly resignation letter. If ever a need arise to resign, you can surely use my resignation letter.

Name of the Employee
Name of the Firm


Name of the Employer
Name of the Firm

Sub :- Resignation Letter

Dear Sir

I regret to inform you that I would like to tender my resignation as (designation) effective from (date). I hereby give 1 month notice of my intention to leave the firm.

I made this decision, not because I’m unhappy with the opportunities you have presented, I have received a bigger opportunity which would alleviate my financial situation. It’s been a great pleasure working with you.

Kindly relieve me from my post and please issue me a job relieving letter and my experience certificate. I would also like to request your high office to settle my dues.

If there is anything I can do in aiding a smooth transition of responsibilities, please let me know. I wish you and your firm great success.

Thanking you.

Place (Sd)
Date Name


Hope you enjoy resigning.

Take care.


Wednesday, August 27, 2014

Spat On the Face

There are some things or instances at some part of our lives which really becomes a turning point to our very existence.

Sometimes, it might be a big issue or just a trivial matter. For me, I have had hordes of experience on my very person which has been intrinsically interwoven into my life and its very beautiful too to look at when I sit and evaluate. It really helped me be a better person.

But one instance really did hurt me. It didn't happen to me, but an incident triggered my memory of the previous incident.

Long time back, may be five years back, it happened in a remote village in Andhra Pradesh. My family and myself decided to buy a plot of land. So, every evening we went around looking at good properties. So once our auto driver came to pick us up for our next destination,he and myself were waiting for others to join. As all were ready and when we started the auto, a widow passed us. Immediately, the auto driver spat and got off the auto. We were surprised by his action and waited for him to respond. And the response we got was "Madam, better get off from the auto, its a bad omen, seeing a widow before we go." The place we have been brought up had no such attitudes of good and bad omen by seeing a crow or a cat, etc... But hurting another human being by making them a scapegoat was simply disgusting. I felt really really sick. I was thinking of the woman who got the brunt of the curse and the action of the driver. How sad she might have been. If I was in her place, how would I get to cope this type of situation, which is not our making. So this was laid dormant as I moved from that place. You might think, why I brought this up.

Two weeks back, a friend of mine of this same locality became a widow and the first thing that came to my mind was the spitting. You know, what her mother was wailing sitting beside the corpse? "Now, who will invite my daughter for any functions? She is just 28 and in such a young age she has been accursed." Hey guys, if the culture we have cannot recognize another human being, then is it worth it?

I for one, would be happy to be skipped from wedding invitations and that sort, but the cursing part, I do not think I can digest it.

This is where, education really helps and if I can speak frankly, educate the girl child because she has a great role in bringing change in society. My friend is a social worker helping educate Girl Child and she also works for women empowerment. What a contradiction.

Its time guys, to awake and arise, for there are people out there who needs to be treated humanly - The Woman. Just remember, you too can be in the same boat one day "Spat on the Face".

See you.

Take care


Tuesday, August 5, 2014

Doubting Tom

Once upon a time a young man named Sadiq and a young girl named Haseena got married, they were new to the business of marriage. Both were innocent to worldly vices. They shared their wows and woes. One day, another boy named Ansar came to this village and saw this girl, immediately, he wanted to have her. He checked her background and came to know that she was married. That didn't stop him from wanting her. He dreamed of her as his girl and started plans to make her his. So he befriended Sadiq and became inseparable. One day, when Sadiq was away, Ansar came to Haseena's place and requested to use the toilet. Haseena without any fear allowed him to use the toilet. Haseena went to the kitchen to prepare food for Sadiq. At that time, Sadiq arrived to find Ansar coming out from the toilet and Haseena, nowhere in sight. This, made Sadiq angry, he started doubting Haseena. He made her life a living hell and slowly, the innocence which was there when the family life began started fading. That was just the beginning of the trail of life's hardships. Ansar was no more interested in Haseena, as her initial freshness started to fade.

We cannot change circumstances, but we can change our attitudes. This scenario could have been different, if Sadiq had cleared his doubt by openly asking Haseena, then both of them could have lived happily ever after. But, what to do, the first impression got stuck - The World Famous Doubt. So guys, if there is anything you should avoid or be strong against is Doubt.

Life is an open book and that is the attitude you should have too. Open your hearts and live your life freely.